Make Me A Better Lover

Question: I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. I am always wanting to do stuff but she never is. We usually end up only doing stuff a couple times a week. She rarely seems into the mood and if we do stuff I feel like I'm forcing her to do stuff. How can I get her in the mood more?

Answer: How you get her in the mood depends a lot on what you are doing now. Is her life hectic at all? Are you fulfilling her emotional needs? When you argue, what do you argue about? A lot of times a woman can not be sexually interested if they are not emotionally interested. Also, most woman I know like intimacy as well. In the two years you've been together, I'm sure there are things she's mentioned she likes. Try and make those happen. Taking the time to show her you want to please her too will help improve her desire. You might also want to try a few of these ideas from one of my recent articles.