Sex After Love?

Question: My ex-boyfriend and I were doing great until the day he broke up with me. We decided to go on and be sexually active with each other and possibly other people. He's the one that brought the issue up the day we broke up. I care about him, but is this a good idea?

Answer: Generally no, it's not a good idea. Personally, I believe sex should be more than just sex. It should be an act performed between two people who love each other. I do agree though that, while you're single a one-night stand here or there isn't going to hurt anyone, as long as both parties understand that's all it is. Except, in this case it's a bit different, he's an ex-love. There are bound to be emotional issues attached to just having a sexual relationship with him. I think it might be a good idea for you not to pursue sex with him unless you are actually in a relationship. Give yourself some time to truly end the romantic side of your relationship before considering this again.