Does This Make Him Bi-Sexual?

Question: This is embarrassing to ask, but lately my boyfriend is wanting to have anal sex. The last time we had it, he wanted me to put something in his anus. He said it excites him. Does this mean that he is or could be bi-sexual or is that normal?

Answer: Enjoying anal stimulation does not make a man bi or homosexual. In fact many straight men enjoy this type of stimulation. A Playboy survey of 100,000 readers noted that 47% of the male respondents admitted to having tried anal intercourse. The reason many men enjoy this is because the male's anal region is an extreme hot zone of nerve endings. The anal opening has the highest concentration of nerve endings. Due to this it is often common for a man to achieve an orgasm just from anal stimulation.

If this is something you'd like to explore further with your partner, keep a few of these safety health tips in mind. Lubrication before any type of penetration is extremely important. Anal skin and tissue can tear when it is dry. Be sure to use a water-based lubrication as oil based lubricants destroy latex condoms. If you decide to engage in vaginal sex after, make sure to change condoms or wash each other.

Remember, enjoying the myriad of pleasures your body can experience doesn't brand you a certain type of person.