Becoming A Strip Tease

Question: Next month is my husband's birthday. I want to surprise him with a strip dance, but I don't actually know how to do it. Can you help me with some tips? -Needing The Right Movies

Answer: A strip dance is a great sensual way to add excitement to any sensual relationship. It can be slow and sultry or fast and provocative. When done right it will leave your partner wanting more, more and more! Here are few tips to help you get started:

The Music
It is important to know what mood you are trying to set. If you want it to be sultry and erotic choose music with a slower tempo. If you want to really get his heart pounding pick something with a faster tempo.

The Setting
An erotic night calls for an erotic setting. Switch all the light bulbs in the room to red lights. Put a few candles in choice spots. Set up the perfect place for your partner to view everything.

All About You
A strip dance does not need to be about becoming nude. In fact, sometimes it's better to leave somethings to their imagination Pick an outfit that makes you feel comfortable and is easy to remove in layers. It could be something as simple as a black bra, black panties, black heels and one of your husband's large white button shirts.

The Props
It is definitely easier to strip when you have props you can use. It allows a little more freedom for creativity and takes up more time so your strip dance can be longer. Make use of your surroundings. If you have a poster bed, make use of the posts. A great prop is long silk scarf. The use of food and drink can make excellent props. Try strawberries and whip cream or champagne. This is an area where you can get really creative at turning your partner on!

The Dance
I suggest practicing your dance in front of a mirror a few times so you don't feel as self-conscious about it in front of your partner. When doing the dance remember the mood you are trying to set. The entire point of dancing is to make your partner crazy with want. Suspense is the key element to this. Don't just shed your clothes as quickly as possible. Make him want every little glimpse you give him. You can also use this as an opportunity to tease him like crazy. Use your hands on your body and imagine they are his hands. Close your eyes from time-to-time and pretend you are fantasizing about him. Remember, no matter what you do, he's going to love it! So just enjoy yourself.

The Muse
For a few examples of some great movie strips, rent one of these and get some great pointers!
9 1/2 Weeks: Strip scene with Kim Bassinger
True Lies: Strip scene with Jamie Lee Curtis
Striptease: Entire movie about stripping.