Oral Sex Matters

Question: I don't know if this question is to dirty to ask, but it's worth a try. I'm clueless on how to give good oral sex to my boyfriend... he's always asking, and I am running out of excuses. Could you help?? ~Clueless in PA

Answer: It's great that you are willing to try and please your boyfriend for him. The first thing you need to do is make sure you are ready and comfortable with doing it. Talk with him before, preferably on a different day than when you are planning on doing this for him, and find out how he likes it to be done. It's always easier to do something when you know as much about it as possible so... read up! For actual technique ideas, I'm going to refer to a previous advice given in the forums.

The first thing you have to have when doing this is the right mind set. Without that it won't be as good as it could be. When you are doing it think only about the pleasure you are giving him and the control you have over how he feels. I don't think a lot of woman realize how fun it is to be able to bring their partner to just about any emotion just by giving them oral sex.

As far as what to do, start with your hands first and slowly stroke him with light feather touches, increasing in pressure and speed as you go. When you feel you are ready, start by teasing him with a few licks here and there, especially around the head. What I like to do is interchange the licks with a few deep throat movements. The point is to make him think there is always more that you could be giving him, but aren't. After a bit start using your hands as well as your mouth. When you want to increase the intensity of the experience take his whole "member" in your mouth and correlate your up and down hand movements with your mouth. While you have your mouth over him, use your tongue as well. It might seem a little weird at first to use them together, but it's worth it. :) From there vary what you do according to how you want your partner to feel. Variety and how much you are into it is the key. I don't think there is much more that can turn a guy on than a women absolutely enjoying every moment of pleasing them orally.

Good luck and remember, don't do anything unless you are 100% sure you want to!