The Dating Game: Winning Conversation Starters

by Jaci Rae, LYC Guest Author

continuted from The Dating Game: Part I

If you're nervous, as most of us are, prepare for your first encounter just as you would when vying for a promotion at work. Practice ahead of time! Make up a little 3x5 flash card set with subjects you are comfortable talking about or questions that are conversation initiators (forget about the weather, that's a dried up subject).

Here are a few you can use that are sure to spark some interest:

Read or watch the news ahead of time and discuss current events. Stick to positive uplifting ones and stay away from politics and religion. Example: Recently in the news there was a story about an autistic boy whose lifetime dream was to play basketball. To be close to the sport he did all the dirty jobs for both the boys and girls teams at his school. The last game of the season he was allowed on the court and scored a slam dunk.
Talk about your family (positively). Example: I have two brothers and one sister. Growing up we…
Liven up the conversation with topics of any recent travels. Example: Recently I traveled to Washington State to see the Fish Market in Seattle. Talk about your experiences there and what you saw.
Ask about their career and how they happened upon it. Example: What do you do for a living? What made you decide on that career path? Did you go to school for your career choice?
Ask about their family (if they shy away, you need to also). Example: Do you have brothers or sisters? Does your family live close?

These are just a few topics. If you can't think of any yourself pour over the Internet for resources on topics of conversation. While I gave you a few suggestions above, there are many more I am sure you can come up with.

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Guest Author Bio:
The author of "Winning Points with the Woman in Your Life One Touchdown at a Time," (Simon and Schuster) Jaci spends her spare time helping others, working on her music, writing and hanging out with family and friends. For more information about Jaci Rae or her book, please visit Winningromance.com.