You've met someone who's a potential love interest, or you might have a secret crush. So, how do you go about showing them you're interested in them without going overboard? Take some advice on subtle signs you can give from these Lovingyou.com users!

1. Spend extra time around them fussing about them and caring for them. -Bettina
   
   
2. Talking to them and flirting. -Becky
   
   
3. When the person is speaking I listen to what he says, and show that I am attentive and enjoy it when he is speaking. -furbili
   
   
4. Eye contact is definitely a good sign. I often find myself smiling at them, talking to them, and sometimes joking about dating them to get a reaction. If (the reaction is) a good one, then I admit my interest -Sarah
   
   
5. Just be extra friendly to the person you're interested in. When at a party, cast him your best smile. If men can put their best foot forward so can women. Picture yourself talking to that person and think about what would really make him ask you to go out with him. -Jennifer M. Fajardo
   
   
6. I let my hand touch them and not jump away when it does. I listen to what they say. -Daniel Curtis
   
   
7. Talk to them whenever you can. Flirt with them; say little things that aren't too noticeable that could clue him/her into the fact that you like them. -Amanda
   
   
8. I try to make eye contact with them and put myself into situations where we'd have to be together so we can talk and get to know each other.
   
   
9. Holding a hug just a little longer than usual, or massaging her shoulders when she is tense. -J
   
   
10. I think that it works out best if you are just honest and you tell the person that you find them attractive or whatever. Then they know, and you can judge by their reaction if they have similar feelings. -Lindsey
    
    
11. I do things like holding doors for them, and go on dates that are a little more expensive. If I really like a girl I will wait till the end of the first date to give them a kiss. Another sure sign I like someone is if I ask someone to go out again at the end of the date. -Jim
    
    
12. I would look at him a certain way. Smile a lot. Be a little more touchy-feely... not too much, just a little... it would be very subtle (I wouldn't want the hints to come off as if I'm trying too hard, or that I am over-doing it). And laugh at all his jokes. -Sweets
    
    
13. Send rose, and a poem, and ask them out on a date. -Joe
    
    
14. I pick on them in a friendly way. That is my way of "flirting." -Chris
    
    
15. Smile, laugh, listen, get them to talk about things they enjoy doing (hobbies, dreams, life, etc.) anything that will make them light up and give me a glimpse of who they truly are. I guess it's that I show that I'm interested in them and what they are all about! -Ary