I wonder why I can't find love. I am in love with my "supposed" boyfriend. When we met, he told me that he was in another relationship, but wasn't happy there. We got along just fine and I started developing feelings for him. Even at this stage I was not sure whether to tell him or not. Finally, I was bold enough to tell him this. A few days after, he came to tell me that his girlfriend was in town. I was weak and scared. He told me not to come to visit and that he'll call me when she is gone. My heart broke and I cried and cried. Well there wasn't anything I could have done, because I knew he had another. Now that he is back, things are not the same anymore. I don't get all excited, and worse still, he now finds faults in everything I do. I feel lost. I know I don't feel the same way for him, but I am still sticking around. I don't know if it will get better or worse. Or, what my true feelings are? -Tears of Love

Dear Tears of Love,
It seems like this relationship is on its way out, and probably not a moment too soon. A relationship with someone who already has a vested romantic interest in someone else is one filled with potential heartbreak and emotional roller coasters. Since your interest is already waning, and his is as well, this is the best opportunity for splitting ways. You deserve someone who can put ALL of their attention on just you. Anything less is just settling.

With Love,

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