Long Distance Intimacy Starters
by J. Good

Below is a list of questions geared to enhance the intimacy in your online or long distance relationship. One of the largest relationship problem areas in these types of relationships is the lack of intimacy and closeness that an "in person" relationship brings. This list should help bridge that gap. To enhance the romantic mood, make sure you have at least an hour to spend with each other. Pop in a romantic CD, light a few candles and enjoy each other's company.

Questions:

Describe your dream vacation?

What are five attributes do you admire most in your love?

Share three areas of your life you want to improve.

What three ways is your love most helpful and supportive to you?

Tell your partner about a time when you felt them sending love to you non-verbally.

Describe your dream car.

Describe what your perfect birthday celebration would be.

Describe your dream house.

Share five things you want to accomplish or do in the next few years.

What unique thing do you love about this relationship?

Describe what you consider to be romantic.

Share three things that make you proud of yourself.

Tell your partner what you love about them.

What three things can you do to make your relationship even better.

Describe the perfect romantic weekend getaway.

How is your life better since you've met your love?

Share the times you have trouble expressing your feelings.

What are you looking forward to most when you see them?

What one thing do you really appreciate that your partner does for you?

Share a dream you both have and talk about a way to make them come true.

How do your differences compliment each other?

Describe the perfect romantic evening from start to finish.