Spice Up Your Sex Life
If you're stuck in a bit of a sex rut, don't worry! There are many things the two of you can do to keep the excitement in your relationship. All you need to do is try a new love making technique once a week or so. There are literally hundreds and hundreds of things you can do to improve your sex life. You can try new techniques, sex games, role playing, etc.
Here are a few love making ideas to get you started!
Love making idea #1:
Make your own private video and/or take naughty pics
Taking sexy videos and pictures is a visual reminder of your sensuality. In the future, whenever the two of you need a reminder of how hot your love making can be, watch the video or look over the photos.
You can also take some hot pictures and send them to your guy/girl through text messaging. The message could say something like "You better hurry home if you want me!"
Love making idea #2:
Try having sex in new places
The bed and couch aren't the only places you can make love. Try having sex in every room of the house. Try having it in the car or on the beach. Some people don't like to admit it, but having sex in unusual places really turns them on! Perhaps it's the thrill of having sex in a public place without getting caught or the excitement of making love on an exotic beach. Either way, you can strengthen your relationship through the anticipation of having sex at any place at any time.
Love making idea #3:
Do some role playing
Some people are afraid of role playing because they don't want to offend their partner. If you want to give this a try, just bring it up casually in conversation. Just say "You know what might be fun?" Before trying it, you both must agree not to judge each other.
Everybody has their secret fantasies, so you should be open-minded when it comes to role playing. This activity will give you a chance to be someone else for a night. You might find yourself getting turned on by something that might otherwise make you feel uncomfortable.
Love making idea #4:
Introduce your fetishes to each other
This is another way to fulfill each other's fantasies. With fetishes, though, you don't have to pretend that you're somebody else. Perhaps you've always wanted to have sex in boots. Or maybe you always wanted to try some light S&M. Most people go their entire lives without even admitting their fetishes. If you and your partner decide to share yours with each other, you could bring a whole lot of excitement into your relationship! Like role playing, however, you must promise not to judge one another.
Love making idea #5:
Whisper into each other's ears when making love
Dirty talking can be very erotic, especially if you whisper to each other during sex. Tell each other how turned on you both are. Whisper what you are doing to each other and what you plan on doing to each other. You don't even have to use explicit language. Simply whispering into each other's ears can be very, very erotic!
Love making idea #6:
Bring out the toys
Sex toys are more than vibrators. They can be anything from a whip to beads. Guys can get pleasure from toys as well. For instance, a pearl necklace can be wrapped around a guy's shaft during oral sex. His partner can then gently stroke it up and down.
Just play with some toys and enjoy yourselves. Sex can go from boring to extremely fun in a matter of minutes when you bring out the toys!
Heather Jennings has been encouraging couples to get more adventurous in the bedroom for years. She particularly recommends sex games for married couples any time things need a little spicing up. Until our next love making strategy session, stay tuned.